Writing

What happens when masculinity stops being something to perform and starts becoming something to question? A reflection on the expectations I absorbed about being a man, sexuality, and performance – and what Im beginning to discover when I stop trying to live up to someone else’s definition.

An introduction to the journey behind Caiden Kair – a look at the expectations, assumptions, and scripts I grew up with around masculinity, sexuality, and what it means to be a man, and why I’m finally starting to question them.

This is a space for exploring masculinity, sexuality, vulnerability, and the things many of us were never taught how to talk about. These are my experiences, discoveries, questions, and lessons learned while figuring out parts of myself I was never really taught how to understand. If something I’ve written helps another man understand himself a little better, then it’s worth sharing.