About

I’m writing about the things many men aren’t necessarily taught how to talk about – sexuality, vulnerability, desire, intimacy, masculinity and learning to understand ourselves outside the expectations placed on us.

These writings come from my own experiences and ongoing exploration. I’m not an expert, and I’m not here to tell anyone how they should experience their sexuality or what masculinity should look like.

I’m simply sharing what I’ve learned, what I’ve questioned, what I’ve discovered, and what I’m still figuring out.

I created this space because I believe men should be able to talk about these things without shame. We should be able to be vulnerable, to acknowledge what we want, to ask for what we need, and to discover that there’s more than one way to be a man.

If something I’ve written helps another man understand himself a little better, feel a little less alone, or become a little more comfortable asking for what he wants, then these words have served their purpose.